DD By Surprise--A testimony

Here's a letter one reader shared with me about how she got involved in DD.
Please keep your stories coming! my email is lisasjoydd@gmail.com

____________________Hubby's Jewel's Story__________________________________
My DD lifestyle happened quite surprisingly. My marriage was in shambles, due largely to my behavior and lack of my husband's leadership.  We hardly spoke, and were sleeping in different rooms. It seemed like only a matter of time before one of us would file for divorce. One day I my husband came home and saw me  our daughter. She had been been neglectful of her chores and then belligerent about it. After I was done and our daughter was crying in the corner, He asked me what she had done to deserve such a sound . I told her matter of factly. "Your daughter has been very neglectful of her chores. Today when I confronted her about it she got belligerent about it. I could see that she needed to be reminded of her place in this family. Any girl in this home who doesn't do her chores deserves a . But any girl in this house who is belligerent and disrespectful of authority deserves a very sound , and that's just what JJ got!"

Then next day, when BJ (Hubby's Jewel's husband) got home from work, He commented that he had to wear a dirty shirt to work because none were clean. pointing to a huge pile of laundry he asked how long it'd been since I'd done any laundry. It'd been quite a while, but I didn't admit that. Instead I flew into a rage and belligerently told me that I wasn't his slave and he could do his own laundry. After I ranted and raved for a bit. BJ Grasped me by the arm and began pulling me toward the couch. He sat down and before I knew it, I was lying over his knee. I screamed, "What do you think you're doing, let me up!"
But BJ held me down, "Now till you shut up and listen to me!"

I struggled to get free for a while but soon realized that I was stuck. Deciding that the moment he let me up I was going to go find a lawyer to file for divorce, I stopped fighting and said, "Go ahead, I'm listening."

"HJ, Just yesterday you told me that any girl in this household who doesn't do her chores deserves a . Well, It looks to me like you've been neglecting ALL your chores for months, maybe that's why our daughter thinks she can skip hers!"
"But..."I uninterrupted
"I'm not done, Shut up and listen!" he said firmly, "Everything's a mess: laundry, dishes, vacuuming, just look at this despicable carpet, and when was the last time you actually fixed a decent supper for us to eat as a family? Look, I work long hours and make a good living. All you do is work a part time job selling candles, Keeping the house is YOUR job, These are YOUR chores!! Furthermore, today when I confronted you about not doing the chores you got all belligerent and began ranting and raving at me in the most disrespectful manner. and to quote you yesterday, 'any girl in this house who is belligerent and disrespectful of authority deserves a very sound !' Well if a little girl should know better than to skip out on her chores and be belligerent toward authority, her mommy certainly should. I don't see how its fair that JJ gets a sound  for these misdeeds, and you don't."
"BJ, you don't mean..." I said frantically, "I'm not a child, I'm a grown woman, I'm your wife, not your daughter!"
"Yes, I do mean, and I know you're a grown woman, and I think a grown woman should be held to a higher standard that her daughter. so YES, I AM going to  you, young lady!"

I started to protest, but his hand crashed down on my  before I could get very far. "Ouch!!" I screamed. He  several more times, then he pulled down my pants and  noting that if JJ had to receive her  . At first while he , I was angry and vowing divorce. But as he held me there and lit a fire in my , A strange feeling crept over me. Somehow, I liked the feeling of having a strong man, putting me in my place. It was a strange feeling of peace. I suddenly felt a  feeling I'd never felt before, and it felt good. As his hand warmed my backside, I slowly surrendered to my  and began crying and apologizing. By the time he stopped, I was a tearful, snotty mess, but as he held me in his arms, while I cried, I buried my face into his shoulder and cried out all the tension that had built up over the years. I think I must have cried for an hour, and my BJ just tenderly held me. When it was all over I apologized to him once more and promised to be more respectful and diligent in my housework. He pulled my clothes back up and told me it was all forgiven.
We hugged for a little more, until JJ came bursting in the door, all excited about something. "Mommy, Mommy can I go..." But when she saw me teary eyed on her daddy's lap, she stopped short and asked, "What's wrong, Mommy?"
"Nothing's wrong, dear, Nothing at all." I said with a smile.
"B-but you're crying!" she pressed.
"Oh, JJ, Sometimes mommy's cry when they're really happy, and your daddy just made me really happy." Then getting up I added, "Come on, JJ, lets fix a nice supper to eat together!"
As JJ and I fixed supper, I just couldn't believe how great I felt. I felt like a new woman. And all I wanted to do was please my man. At supper time JJ remembered what she was going to ask when she got home. She had been invited to go on a camping trip with a friend. We agreed to let her go and BJ drover her over to her friend's house. While he was gone, I realized that we had a whole weekend to ourselves, and for the first time, I was excited about it. I dug around in the bottom of my drawer and found the skimpy nightie, I had worn on out wedding night. It was all wrinkled but I put it on anyway. Then I started to do laundry, making sure to wash his shirts and pants first. That evening we had a long talk about our relationship. I admitted that my  had had a strange affect on me. We agreed that from now on, He would be the man and I would be respectful, gt my chores done and obey him or else he would  me. That night we had fun in the bed for the first time in years. The next day he had me stay  as I caught up on the housework. Even though I was doing work all day, I didn't mind. I felt so bubbly and joyful I sang the whole time. Even knowing BJ was watching my   brought me joy. I made sure to do as much work within his eye-shot as possible. I knew it pleased him and I felt good, making him so happy. It also made me feel s e x y, something I had not felt in a long time. We had a wonderful weekend. By the time BJ left to pick up JJ on Sunday evening, the house was spotless, dinner was ready and I was glowing. As I put my clothes on for the first time since JJ had left, I sensed that a brand new life was beginning. And it did!

JJ doesn't know why her mommy and daddy are suddenly madly in love, but she has thrived under the new order of out household. We eat dinner together every evening, and she often invited her friends to our house (previously, she always wanted to got to theirs). BTW, the problems with JJ not doing her chores and being belligerent are all but gone now. In fact, I get more s than she does! Perhaps when she gets older and starts dating, I'll let her in on the secret of our happiness, until then I'm enjoying every minute.

Love,
HJ (Hubby's Jewel)

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