Lisa's Joy, DD: The Dressing Game

Hey everyone, I though I'd tell you about a game my hubby and I play that we find rather fun. We call it Hubby's Choice.

We set a certain time period in which my clothing is my Hubby's Choice. This may be a weekend, a month or even a year, however long we set. during that time my hubby decides everything I wear every day. Of course, I have submitted everything, including my clothing, to my Hubby so if he asks me to wear or not wear something I'll happily obey. But during this game, I will not put on any clothes he hasn't chosen.

He has made a small corner of my closet with a short hanging rack and a small shelf, where he puts my clothes for the day. In the morning I get up and check the closet. Whatever I find there, I wear that day, at least until he removes it that night ;-) .

We have made laminated cards that he uses to help guide my dressing. So if he wants to choose my dress for the day, but doesn't care about my u n d e r w e a r he just hangs the dress on the rod and

puts the "Wife's Choice: Under wear" and "Wife's Choice: Footwear" card on the shelf. I put on the dress he chose and wear whatever I want underneath.

Some days he will put the "Wife's Choice: Clothing" card on the shelf. That means I can dress whatever way I want to that day. Often I try to come up with some surprise for him. If he puts the "Wife's Choice: Clothing" card on the table but adds a blouse or some under wear I must wear that but can choose any other garments.

There is also a card he uses often,

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"No P a n t i e s" that combined with a "Wife's Choice: Clothes" card or a "Wife's Choice: Skirt" card means I can dress how I want, within the parameters, but not wear

I have a card I use to let Hubby know I'm on my period. He still has the right to restrict underwear and I just wear a t a m p o n but normally he doesn't exercise that right.

We also have some agreed upon ground rules. If it is cold, I may wear whatever I need to when I'm outside to keep warm. And I have a basic full length that I throw on over whatever if I really must go outside quickly and am not modest. If I need to go to town or something, and he has me wearing something inappropriate for public, I must call Hubby and ask permission to change for the outing. He will normally grant the permission, but he has been known to say no and I must simply stay home. If I do get special permission, the moment I get back home I revert to his chosen clothing for me. If he has me undressed and I'm inside, being cold is no excuse, I must simply turn up the heat in the house, until I'm comfortable.

The cards are the exception, not the rule. With the exception of the "Wife's Choice: Clothing" card which he uses a lot. normally if he's choosing my clothes, he lays it all out for me.

We find it a very enjoyable game. And I have warn some very interesting selections. One time, he had me wear nothing but a short skirt. Another time he had me dressed up as If I were going to a ball from the waist down. on top, nothing. Another time I wore just his t-shirt, which was a dress on me, for three days. A few weeks ago he had me wearing nothing but high heels and pigtails.

One time I found nothing on the rod or on the shelf. I assumed that he had forgotten and intended to put out the "Wife's Choice: clothing" card, which is his most common card. so I got dressed as normal. When he got home I discovered that he HAD planed what I was to wear--nothing! He proceeded to undress me one piece at a time and one button at a time giving me a solid S W A T after each one, then once I was appropriately

he put me over his knee for a real

. I had to go

for the next two days. So now whenever I find nothing on the shelf on of the rod, I wear nothing!

I'll explain the cards and how it works below, also here's a ZIP file of the cards we use, in case you want to give this game a try. ZIP FILE

This allows me to dress as I want. Especially during long games, Hubby uses this one a lot. It can also be combined with any other card or piece of clothing. In which case the card or clothing must be followed and I only have choice over that is not otherwise specified. A common combination is this card and "no

This includes, blouses, t-shirts, jackets, etc. but not bras or any kind of under garments, those are in a different card.

This means I can wear whatever I want, a long as its a dress. It is not uncommon, on town days for him to give me this card and "Wife's Choice : Footwear" and leave me with nothing under. This keep me on my toes and makes me feel my submission the whole time I'm in town, even though no one else can tell.

This allows me to chose between my skirts. but no pants.

This allows me to wear any pants or shorts I want but not a skirt

This allows me to choose whatever outer garment I wear from the waist down: skirt, pants, or nothing. If he combines this with a "Wife's Choice: top" then I can elect to wear a dress or a jumper too, since those are both a top and a bottom.

What goes on my feet. this also includes stockings or nylons.

Pretty self explanatory.

I can choose whatever goes on my feat.

This one is most often pares with a "Wife's Choice: footwear" when I must be in town. It simply means that while I'm indoors I must have my feet bare.

This covers any adornment, earrings, necklaces, etc. My hubby says he like me natural and rarely uses this one.

I can choose what to wear underneath. There are times this is the only thing in my closet--thus that's all I wear.

My hubby loves to have my

so he has created this one to make it easier.

No explanation needed

I get to choose my

this one is rarely used, except during my period.

This one is often used. It trumps anything else. So If he says I can choose something but puts this card then I can choose everything but

Since he cannot put my hair in the closet, I may do what I want with my hair unless otherwise specified. If he puts a hair tie or ribbon on the shelf I must use it. Otherwise he might dictate my hair style with at card.

This is pigtails. You know, two braids or loose pony tails, one on each side. Much like you wore when you were a little girl. Hubby loves this one! He think I look cute in Pigtails.